Ok, so I am pretty confuse right now... Not to say confuse but stuck I guess... Because I have no idea what to feel and what to think...
So I shall prepare some "cases" and I kind of need you girls to give me some advice or just answer or... I don't know? you girls should be good at this right? XP
Cases going after two girls at once is clearly crossing the line and has to be dealt with properly like killing that particular person or something similar.
However, I have a condition which I am very inexperience in handling. Going after your friend's girl friend is crazy and deserves to be killed too! And if the girl accepts you, that would make the case even more interesting as life always is.
Now, what if, I know a guy that likes a girl. He is my friend and she is also my friend. But then I wish to be more than just friend with this girl. The particular girl completely don't know this guy but the guy just secretly admire her and you know...
So, I would like to be with this girl too and on the other hand, he is also my friend and something bad might happen if I seriously go after her because he knows I know he likes her but he doesn't know I like her too!
Then... Will it be bad if I went after the girl? I know guys usually compete for a good girl and same things on the other hand. and I do have an unfair advantage compared to the guy as I already know the girl and the guy is too shy to try to know her...
If you are reading, Jacky, and to the rest too, I know you told me to just forget about that guy and go after her. But then, I just feel not right that way, is like taking advantage of his weakness and... I don't know, I just don't feel right doing it.
Basically, I want to know,
whether going after her is a wrong thing to do?
Am I thinking too much about the "taking advantage thing"?
do help me out girls! XD
for those who know who I am referring to please a... please a... tutup mulut la... XD
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1st thing, it's not wrong to go after that girl. because they aren't couples! unless they are, then you can't. And yes, u think too much. it's not taking advantage at all okay? he's shy to know her so what to do? not your fault also. if u wanna feel better or in case something bad happen in the future, u must have the bravery to do something, that is tell him u like that girl too *in a nice way lar*. so, just go for it lar! =)
ReplyDeletelolzz... okok... thanks...
ReplyDeleteLols!! What an interesting situation!!
ReplyDeleteSeriously like some Korean drama in action weiihh!! XD
Anyways, my opinion is: GO FOR IT. : )
I know it feels a bit immoral to go for that girl, knowing your other friend likes her too. But my question is, how close are you with this friend who likes her??
I mean, if he is your biggest pal, or best friend, then memang larhh follow your conscience. If not, why on earth do you give a damn?? Don't you care enough for your own happiness too?? O,O
Better yet, if you know there is a possibility to be with her, you cant help that the other guy is a loser and is too shy right?? Memang this world super competitive de lorhh!! If you wont have her, someone else definitely will. By then, will you still be able to look at her without any trace of regret afterwards?? THAT question, only you know the answer JJ. Best luck yeahh!! ^_^
GO FOR IT!!!
ReplyDeleteDon't let urself regret!!!
If ur fren angry u becuz of this, just explain to him lo....
lolz... thanks lot...
ReplyDeleteSupport u buddy!!! Go Go Go!
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